Thursday, July 07, 2005

The words that come out of your mouth

As the news goes on about the blast in London, jus a day after they have won the bid to host the 2012 olympics, i sit in my room typing my new entry. Sheesh...the world is a mess. No wonder some married woman refuse to have kids, they dont wanna bring a child into a world of chaos and distraught.
I have a habit. I like to write down the words i dont know/understand in a book. Then i will look them up in my dictionary. These days the pages of words are filling up yet most of them are still foreign to me. ( Time to do some work about it) Since the day i stopped working, i've been meeting up with my friends, attending concerts, keeping company...blahblah. And to my greatest horror.....i gained weight. Omy...o mymy.. i found out only at my latest medical check needed for my university entry. I would never have stepped onto a weight scale if not for that. Argh....it might not have been a large change in terms of numbers but....... My mum has been surprisingly empathic as she too complains of a gain in weight. HahA...So now, most of my friends are not workin...some of them are on a holiday...some serving the country(wahaha). I'm off to camp nxt week...and to think that i happily thought that i have offically ended my camping days as i stepped out of college. TskTsk....here we go again.
There is a chinese saying that says that the people around you see clearer/better than you yourself. This is true. This is why, most often or not, you tend to ask for advice or opinion. At the same time, you realise and understand alot more about the other person. I've always been a person that believes what i see. Therefore, at times, it makes me reluctant in believing what others might put forward. And i cant stop but wonder...what if some things have to be believed to be seen.Some people are demeaning, and as the chinese saying goes, they just might be right even if they sound way too hush. I don't know. Perhapes, it lies in the people making the judgement. Whether they understand you....sympathise with you....As always people do not take criticism easily. As an author writes, disapproval or discontent should be put across the way porcupines make love......very carefully...hehehee. So the next time you pass a judgement or your own piece of mind, make sure you do it nicely...tactfully...effectively...and respectfully.. :)
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