Being in my shoe......

Finding Fit

I'm tired. I am....so y am i blogging? Well, i'm waiting for my hair to dry...and..hmhmhmm. It strike me today that people dun really know each other until they have know enough to crack silly jokes at one other. Someone said my name and Kwai ( obedient...good girl )..in the same sentence today..hmm...wait till they know me well enough..haha..Impressions and understanding are at two different ends. We have fun being shallow sometimes but thats as far as it goes. I was telling a friend of mine today about my passport and I.D cards come from 3 different countries, he didnt really see the link..but owell....Oh yeah..Please dun try pronouncing my name in canto unless you can get it right ( which 99% of you will not...hahah)....i have had a dozen versions of it through out the years.Its enough.
Understanding is a process, especially understanding a person. Sometimes, we discover new or even weird things about each other. My close friends will know that i actually have pretty small feet for my height ( opps....shd let you guys go figure...)...hehehe. There are people who are more socialable hence prefer to hang in groups, there are also those who prefer to interact in smaller groups. My best- friend said that you get to know a person up close and personal when it is just the both of you. But in a group, more often or not, you just acknowledge theres such a person. I concur with her. You cannot be in one's shoes unless you understand her and the situation or environment he/she is in. " It is well to give when asked, but it is better to give unasked, through understanding" -Kahlil Gibran. So do you really know the people around you? Or do you just look at them but .....hardly see them...

Finally....a win

Random Thoughts

A sunny sunday- a sunny thought
School starting again- an anxious/nervous thought
Miss my friends- a matter-of-fact thought
Meeting new friends- a cautious thought
Nus- a positive thought
Architecture- an etticing thought
My new wallet - a putting-the past-behind-me thought
Love- an emotive thought
My bed- a sleepy thought
Rag- a floating thought
Chocolate- a dangerous thought
Tears- an ambiguious thought
Happiness- a daily thought
Hug- a i-need-one-now thought
My phone- a screwed up thought
Conversations- a communicative thought
My pictures- a comforting thought
Family- a must-have thought
My looks- a flawful thought
Heartbroken- a jaded thought
Life- a quintessential thought
Me- Random Thoughts.........................

Do first....think later....

.....~and there is light~...


I was just out with one of my fellow councilor-close-guy-friend when my cousin spotted me. Apparently, he thought there was something going on between us. And i went home to have my dad tellin me about the incident. HAHAHAHA. Goodness, this is hilarious. Ps: i went out in a group 2dae and as i was tellin him...i'm as single as Kraft Cheese..haha. Anyways, i went on to meet a couple of my dear friends and have dinner with the belated birthday girl who went on to embarrass herself in front of our fellow councilor's girlfriend...shhshh...haha. Its ok, we all have our moments. Haha.
There are moments ,or rather, situations in which we feel small. Putting ourselves short. Feeling unsure or uneasy about ourselves.Especially in a world where perfection is highly regarded. People want the perfect face, the perfect body, the perfect job...blahblah. But i guess, its the flaws in us that makes us human. Still, we cant help but be green with envy to those who have what we earn for. Contrary to what many believe, i too do get these kind of feelings. Come on, i'm only human. Its times like that when you need assurance, when you desperately need someone to tell you that you are fine the way you are, or just a simple hug. What you think is a shortcoming might just be what makes you different and special. Take a deep breathe and just indulge in what you do and feel best about. It might no be the most glamorous but the simplest things...like makin your friends laugh...being there for people you care about...knowing that only you have a bunch of rock-solid friends ( lets face it...how many people can seriously have so many close friends...but "we" can..hehe)...knowing that your flaws are a result of too-much-laughter( desfigures the nice symmetry of the face...jokin..haha )...too many heart-warming dinner and lunches( that extra fats )...too much bitching?...haha
So its normal to be green, but, A diamond with a flaw is better than a common stone that is perfect.