Listen to your heart and pay attention to it

The title was inspired when i was watchin oprah primetime ( with anderson cooper, the cnn reporter) :
"you cant chose who/how u were born, but u can chose how u live your life"

4/28/2006 : The catalyst

Was talking to a friend just awhile ago, she hasn’t known me for long but she kind of knows me
quite well already. We were chatting along and here are some extracts:

Fren says:everyone is just waiting for cupid to strike. =)
Fren says:fate and time will tell. He/she doesn't have to rush for it
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Fren says:actually opp. attracts only holds true for certain cases.
Fren says:there's no generalizations when it comes to r/ns.
Fren says:not only r/ns.. everything in fact.
Fren says:ppl are generalizing more frequently only because of the media... the narrow minded messages perpetuated by the media.
Fren says:it's difficult to explain but... just want to tell u tt u can't generalize too much

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Fren says:but i understand. =)
Fren says:it's too late and i am too old and time is too little for me to break into your circle. hahaha-
Jia :.. says:but i'm used to keepin things to myself la
Jia :. says:i dun believe in burdenin pple
Jia :.. says:with my problems
Jia :.. says:hehe
Fren. says:actually, everyone has a way of managing their own lives. if u feel tt u r living the best way now, it's great =)
Fren. says:there's no need to conform to standards but...
Fren says:don't treat sharing stuff as burdening people. =)
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Fren says:it's ok
Fren says:but relax gal.
Fren says:u are too...
Fren says:tight i feel..
Fren says:the line is tauted..
Jia :.. says:hehe
Jia :... says:at times la
Jia :. says:but i;ve learnt to jus let go la
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Fren says:actually...
Fren says:everyone has 2 sides to em'...
Fren says:what she cannot imagine doesn't mean it doesn't exist
Jia :... says:true true
Fren says:everyone needs a catalyst.
Jia :.. says:some stronger than another
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